Keep people close.

Apsis is a privacy-first relationship maintenance app for iOS that helps you nurture meaningful connections through visual circle maps and context-aware nudges.

After 30, friendships don't die dramatically — they fade. Apsis keeps them alive.

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Friendships fade without effort

Life gets busy. Work, family, daily routines — the people who matter most slowly drift to the edges of your world. Not from conflict. Not from distance. Just from time.

You think of them. You mean to reach out. But weeks turn to months, and suddenly it's been too long to send "just saying hi."

Apsis keeps the people who matter at their closest point.

How It Works

Circle Map

See your relationships as concentric rings with you at the center. Glowing contacts = recently connected. Dimming contacts = drifting away. Your relationships, visualized.

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Daily Briefing

Start each day with 1-3 people + context. See who you haven't connected with lately, upcoming birthdays, and recent interactions — all in one beautiful feed.

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Smart Nudges

Not dumb reminders. Context-aware suggestions framed as opportunities: "Mike just started a new job — good time to check in?" Never guilt. Always helpful.

Quick Logging

One tap to log an interaction. Add an emoji if you want. Or write a detailed note. Either way, Apsis remembers so you don't have to.

🔒 Privacy-First

We never upload your friends' data

Your relationships are yours. Apsis is built with privacy at its core — not as an afterthought.

On-device processing — Your contacts stay on your phone. Only names and your notes sync to the cloud.
No third-party data sharing — We don't sell, share, or export your relationship data. Ever.
Deep-linking to native apps — When you reach out, Apsis opens your phone's Messages or Phone app. No data leaves your device.
Clear data deletion — Delete your account and all data is permanently removed. No exceptions.

Simple Pricing

Beta testers get full access to all features. No restrictions, no paywalls.

Free

$0/month

Perfect for maintaining your closest circle

  • 15 contacts
  • Circle Map visualization
  • Daily Briefing
  • Basic tier reminders
  • Quick interaction logging
Coming Soon

Together

$8/month

Shared circles for couples

  • Everything in Pro
  • Shared contact circles
  • Collaborative notes
  • Group hang coordination
  • Joint relationship management

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Apsis? +

Apsis is a privacy-first relationship maintenance app for iOS. It helps you keep meaningful friendships alive through visual circle maps (showing relationship health at a glance), daily briefings (1-3 people to connect with), and smart nudges framed as opportunities, not guilt. Your contact data stays on-device — only names and your notes sync to the cloud.

How is Apsis different from a CRM? +

Apsis is built for personal friendships, not business contacts. CRMs are designed for sales pipelines and conversion tracking. Apsis focuses on meaningful connections with beautiful visualization (circle map), gentle nudges, and absolute privacy. We're relationship maintenance, not relationship management.

What data does Apsis collect? +

Only contact names, tier assignments, and your interaction notes. Phone numbers, email addresses, and all personally identifiable information (PII) stay on your device. Contact processing happens on-device. We never upload PII, never share data with third parties, and never sell your information.

When will Apsis launch? +

Apsis is currently in private TestFlight beta for iOS. Android development is planned after iOS public launch. Public App Store release date TBD for 2026. Email [email protected] to request beta access.

Do I need to log every interaction? +

No. Quick mode is one tap. Log an interaction in one tap, optionally add an emoji sentiment, or write detailed notes if you prefer. Apsis works with minimal or comprehensive logging — your choice. The circle map updates based on any interaction you record.

Will Apsis spam me with notifications? +

No. Daily suggestions are capped at 1-3. Apsis uses a weekly digest model with optional event-triggered notifications (birthdays, life events only). Quiet hours are respected. The circle map visualization is the primary nudge — not push notification spam.

Can I use Apsis with my partner? +

Yes! The Together tier (coming soon) lets couples share contact circles, add collaborative notes, and coordinate hangouts together. Perfect for maintaining shared friendships.

Keep the people you love close

Join the TestFlight beta and get early access to Apsis.

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